it's all about mutual respect and if that's there, the drama can be curtailed quite a bit, problems outside of the relationship are usually easily solved or aren't there a day or 2 later anyway.

i'm a decent looking guy and can pretty much do anything. right now i hold a job, yes, i do have one and have the same one for going on 5 years. and i have a truck, and it runs, and i can afford to put my own gas in it, and buy my own cigarettes and everything else i need to get through my day

go figure, in daytona no less

now for me and my a/s/l,

1. i live in port orange for now, fixing to move beachside soon

2. im 5' 8" tall and weigh 130 with my hair wet

3. i spend a lot of time on the beach, i fish, i lay out, i walk, i fish, i'll play in the waves, i'll have a cold one sometimes, i fish, yes...i spend a lot of time around the sand

4. look at the title of the personal ad, i'm open to alot of things, when it comes to drinking/partying, i can take it or leave it, im good at both

as for you.....

1. 30 to 40 in age, give or take, but.... if you're bigger than me by more than 10lbs, there's plenty of other ads to choose from. sorry but BBW is not for me, been there, done that, aint going back

2. i'd rather you be active, sure i can sit around and watch jackie gleason and anythign else when it's raining out, it's the winter, or we just decide we're laying around for a day

3. kids are great, i love being around them and i'm a world of knowledge to anyone, young or old. i'm not a disciplinarian nor will i ever be, it's not my job.

4. be spontaneous, if there's no plan for the day and cocoa beach comes to mind, the truck runs, all it takes is a key turn, be ready to venture.

all in all i can sit in bars, i can show off on the pool table, i can make an idiot of myself on the dancefloor, i can do all kinds fo crazy things to pick up women, but....by instinct i turn them down, why? i don't have a clue besides the fact my next girlfriend won't come off a barstool. she can get on one shortly after we meet, i just don't want her coming off one to meet me.

if you're free and want to enjoy what we have left of this life hit me up. i have pretty thick skin so if you'd prefer to just write and insult me or this ad, feel free, it won't hurt my feelings a bit, we've all been through most of the bs we want to go through and i'm being honest as to how i feel, if you can't deal with honesty, there's no way you're going to be able to deal with me.

thanks, and im looking forward to 'you'